Jesus said, “Neither do I condemn you; go, and from now on sin no more.” (John 8:11 ESV)
Jesus did not condemn the woman caught in adultery; neither did He overlook her sin. Instead, he offered compassion, forgiveness, and correction.
What is the difference between condemnation and correction?
Condemnation declares something as beyond repair, uninhabitable, or incurable. Correction, on the other hand, intends to aid in recovery and improvement. It implies careful evaluation in the hope of setting things right. Unfortunately, many of us conflate the two, lumping all forms of critique as judgmentalism. Sorting and separating these two concepts requires discernment.
For example, if a good friend of mine notices that I am about to make a choice that may have long-term, negative consequences, what should she do? She could decide to keep her opinions to herself; after all, she doesn’t know for sure that her instincts are accurate. Plus, I may not accept what she has to say, and it could damage our friendship.
Condemnation of a stranger or an enemy is easier than admonishing a loved one. Correction requires boldness from the giver and humility from the recipient. It’s difficult to accept advice from those we do not respect or trust.
Lord, grant that we may follow Your example in all things. Teach us to have empathy, grace, boldness, and humility. Help us to give and accept correction when necessary.
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