Self-Respect

“I would ask each of you to be emptied of self-promotion and not create a false image of your importance. Instead, honestly assess your worth by using your God-given faith as the standard of measurement, and then you will see your true value with an appropriate self-esteem.” (Romans 12:3 TPT)

If an expensive brand of car does not have a hood ornament that announces its worth, would it remain appealing? If clothes or accessories came with nothing to identify them as exclusive, would people pay exorbitant prices for them? If pictures and stories of travel and activities could not be publicized with anyone, would these experiences be less interesting? 

Humans have always used props for self-promotion. Cavemen probably embellished stories about their hunting experiences. Cavewomen most likely compared their jewelry made from bones and teeth of animals. Unfortunately, humans have not evolved much in this aspect. We still project false images to look important. 

We may be able to elicit attention, applause, or envy with displays of wealth and success, but public validation is fickle. The temporary high is disappointing. Our worth cannot be based on props, masks, costumes, and applause. It is natural to crave respect, but why do we settle for counterfeit versions that fail to satisfy? 

Self-respect is derived from being honorable--even when no one is there to observe you. It comes from staying true to an internal moral compass. Honestly assess your worth by using your God-given faith as the standard of measurement, and then you will see your true value with an appropriate self-esteem.