There
are certain character traits that may be passed on from generation to
generation, some of which include generosity, discipline, confidence,
bitterness, pessimism, stubbornness…Well, one trait that I have certainly
inherited is a sense of righteous
indignation.
Indignation
is defined as—a strong displeasure at something considered unjust, unfair, offensive,
or insulting.
This
trait can be a double-edged sword. On the one hand, it makes me want to be an
advocate for the oppressed and stand up and fight for every perceived
injustice; but on the flip side, it causes me to get involved in battles that
are not mine to fight—leaving me resentful and frustrated.
According
to C.S. Lewis, “Indignation at others’ sufferings, though a generous passion,
needs to be well managed lest it steal away patience and humanity from those
who suffer and plant anger and cynicism in their stead.” (-from The Problem of Pain)
Even
though I had noticed the effects of my indignation on myself, I didn’t realize
that it could be negatively impacting others. When I voice my exasperation
about any situation—it plants seeds of resentment and discontent in those who
are suffering.
For
example, when a friend is going through a crisis, I may say: “This is so unfair; you don’t deserve this;
you shouldn’t put up with this!”
My
outrage is not likely to make her problem go away. In fact, it may just
increase her sense of frustration, cynicism, and despondency.
Once
we understand these negative side effects of indignation, we can be more
careful. It is a sword that needs to be brandished thoughtfully, used
judiciously, and sheathed conscientiously.
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