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Friday, October 25, 2013

Side Effects of Indignation


There are certain character traits that may be passed on from generation to generation, some of which include generosity, discipline, confidence, bitterness, pessimism, stubbornness…Well, one trait that I have certainly inherited is a sense of righteous indignation. 

Indignation is defined as—a strong displeasure at something considered unjust, unfair, offensive, or insulting.

This trait can be a double-edged sword. On the one hand, it makes me want to be an advocate for the oppressed and stand up and fight for every perceived injustice; but on the flip side, it causes me to get involved in battles that are not mine to fight—leaving me resentful and frustrated.

According to C.S. Lewis, “Indignation at others’ sufferings, though a generous passion, needs to be well managed lest it steal away patience and humanity from those who suffer and plant anger and cynicism in their stead.” (-from The Problem of Pain)

Even though I had noticed the effects of my indignation on myself, I didn’t realize that it could be negatively impacting others. When I voice my exasperation about any situation—it plants seeds of resentment and discontent in those who are suffering.

For example, when a friend is going through a crisis, I may say: “This is so unfair; you don’t deserve this; you shouldn’t put up with this!

My outrage is not likely to make her problem go away. In fact, it may just increase her sense of frustration, cynicism, and despondency.

Once we understand these negative side effects of indignation, we can be more careful. It is a sword that needs to be brandished thoughtfully, used judiciously, and sheathed conscientiously.

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