“I’ll tell you what these false brothers and sisters are counting on: your attention. They are ravenous for it. They are not acting honorably or in your best interests. They want to keep you away from the good news we proclaim so they can have you all to themselves.” (Galatians 4:17 VOICE)
Have you ever wondered why certain people are interested in you? Is it that they find you fascinating or that they want your attention? Do they have your best interests at heart? Or, are they merely trying to feel relevant?
I have learned to be suspicious of people who put up false fronts. They are like those buildings with tall facades that extend beyond their true dimensions. They want to lure you in by appearing to be more than they are--more fun, more wealthy, more friendly, more flattering, more attentive. What do they hope to get out of all this? They want your attention and validation. They hope you will become dependent on them for approval, seeking their guidance. This makes them feel significant. What’s wrong with this type of relationship? It pulls us away from authentic connections that lead us to growth. Those who are honorable, who will put our best interests over their own, are rare and precious. You can identify these people by the consistency and sincerity of their actions. There is integrity in all their relationships. They find joy in bringing out the best in others, guiding them to Grace.
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