Complex Pleasures

They say that simple pleasures are always the best. Then why do most of us chase after the complicated pleasures of life? A home cooked meal of a few ingredients, walking the dog around your neighborhood, watching the birds at your birdfeeder, clean sheets on your bed, a hot shower, the scent of earth after a good rain, picking a tomato off a vine, singing to yourself, reading a good book, laughing with friends, watching your child eat, hugging your spouse…all score high on the pleasure scale. Yet, those who prefer these delights over more elaborate pursuits are deemed unsophisticated. Instead, those who travel to exotic locations, acquire possessions that nobody else has, dine at expensive, gourmet restaurants, and engage in activities that are limited to the privileged are held in much higher esteem. Exclusivity is mistakenly perceived as a magnifier of happiness. New experiences and sensations are valued over anything that seems commonplace. 

I have had the opportunity to experience both sides of the spectrum. I have traveled more than the average person. Seeing the great wonders of the world can be inspiring. Tasting native cuisines from different cultures can be intriguing. However, sitting down to dinner with my family on a daily basis enriches the quality of my life much more than any of these experiences.

Extravagant pleasures are more likely to leave you feeling restless and discontent, while simple tastes and uncomplicated desires lead to lasting fulfillment. The ability to find contentment in your daily routine is much more gratifying than the never-ending search for exciting experiences. In my experience, satisfaction is most often found close to home.