“Give honor and respect to those who deserve it.” (Romans 13:7 VOICE)
Every human being has worth and value and deserves to be treated with kindness and fairness. However, we cannot commit our time to everyone we encounter. We are inevitably influenced by the people whom we invest in; thus, it is important to be selective.
When evaluating if someone should be allowed to influence how we think, feel, and live, there are two questions to ask:
-Are their actions consistently honorable?
-Are they honest with themselves and others?
When evaluating the quality of your relationships, there are two questions to ask:
-Are they trustworthy?
-Do they treat you with respect?
Whether a person likes you, flatters you, or impresses you is not crucial. If they are not trustworthy, then whatever they say is suspect. You wouldn’t take candy or medicine from a stranger or a known crook. Similarly, do not accept criticism or flattery from those who are untrustworthy. Dishonesty is a form of disrespect. And, if you have enough self-respect, you will not allow others to continually disrespect you. Our time and energy are limited. It is wise to be selective in our relationships and commitments. Honor and respect everyone as human beings created by God, but be selective of those allowed to exert an influence on you. Make choices that are worthy of honor and respect.
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