Customs and Costumes

“Figure out what pleases Christ and then do it.” (Ephesians 5:10 MSG)

Every culture has a set of accepted customs that it deems appropriate--behaviors, etiquette, attitudes, and standards that are adopted by the majority of the group. Those who think or act differently are considered rebels, outcasts, and threats to an orderly society. The desire to belong and be accepted is part of human nature. This motivates us to move with the herd and not ask too many questions. Like actors on a stage, we don the costumes that are laid out for us, repeat the lines that are handed to us, and play the roles that other people expect of us. We are held captive by the applause and the accolades.

What drives you? Is it the desire to belong, to be admired, to be accepted, to meet or exceed the expectations of those around you? Are you constrained by the herd and pushed along prescribed pathways that are not meant for you? Is your motivation extrinsic or intrinsic?

God created each of us with a unique purpose. In order to discern His will for us, we have to become familiar with His voice and guidance. He asked us to follow Him--not the herd. The customs and costumes of this world can be binding, holding us back from expressing the spirit within us. We need to get away, to meet with our Lord in intimate nooks, and to walk beside Him in wide open spaces. As we get to understand God and what pleases Him, we are motivated to fulfill the purpose for which we were specifically designed.