I’ve
often wondered why the U.S. government gets involved in the civil matters of
other countries. Do we not have enough domestic issues to engage us? Or is it
that we find it less painful to deal with other people’s problems than our own?
Sure, we have invested a great deal in foreign affairs, and as a world
Superpower, we feel a certain amount of responsibility for the welfare of every
human—especially those who are subjugated by oppressive governments. Yet,
previous experience has shown us that meddling in the civil wars of other
countries brings very few long-term benefits to anyone.
Similarly,
meddling in the lives of others rarely benefits anyone in the long run. It
might allow us to feel like a superpower for a little bit, and it might
distract us from our own domestic problems. Yet, when we can’t fix our internal
conflicts, why do we assume that we can change the minds and behaviors of
others?
If
a friend or family member asks us for guidance, it’s okay to give them our
opinion. However, when we insist on handing out unsolicited advice, it is
seldom useful or accepted.
We
worry about our loved ones. Our worry and concern leads to meddling. The
difference between intervening and interfering is subjective; it depends on the
viewpoint of the recipient. Worry and meddling is a sure sign of a lack of
trust and respect—in God--in His ability to take care of every situation and
person.
“I
haven’t meddled where I have no business or fantasized grandiose plans. I’ve
kept my feet on the ground, I’ve cultivated a quiet heart…Wait for God. Wait
with hope.” (Psalm 131:1-3 MSG)
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