I absolutely
hate being manipulated.
The
definition of manipulation: to manage or influence skillfully, especially in an
unfair manner.
When
we try to manage or influence others and call it ‘helping’—is it just another
form of manipulation? Are we just ‘helping’ them to do things according to our
ideals?
Most
conflicts are based on power struggles. Opposing sides have different visions
on ‘how things ought to be’ and proceed to convince others to go along with
their ideals. Some battles involve physical violence, while others employ
hurtful words and manipulative tactics.
Once
we recognize that God is in charge of both sides of every battle, we can rest
from struggling.
Lord, You are in
charge of me and everyone else. You are the Manager of the entire universe. You
are able to influence people’s choices, thoughts, actions, and attitudes. I
don’t have to be in constant power struggles with those who are trying to
control me. You are in control of me and
them. I can be tranquil and at peace, confident in Your managerial skills.
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