“The LORD doesn't see things the way you see them. People judge by outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart." (1 Samuel 16:7 NLT)
We spend so much of our life trying to prove that we are worthy. We try to make a good impression and present ourselves in the best light. We attempt to look our best, display our talents, and prove our intelligence. We strive to earn people’s love, approval, and admiration. Why? Why do we attempt to justify, explain, and defend ourselves to others? Why do we base our self-worth on external validation? Why do we seek constant reassurance that we are lovable?
The material world has carved out a hole in us. We attempt to fill this void through experiences, interactions, possessions, comparisons, and distractions. Yet, we merely end up with a pit filled with rejection and insecurities. Trying to base our self-worth on external validation is similar to filling in a hole with grenades. Even though our lives feel less empty, it is just a matter of time before we implode.
There is a better option. We can derive our sense of worth from a relationship with God. We don’t need to lose weight, dress up, strive to be sophisticated, or pretend to be intellectual. We can turn to this God who accepts us ‘as is’ and get to know Him intimately. God is worthy--and we are worthy by association.
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