Dissonance

“Throw out the mocker, and fighting goes, too. Quarrels and insults will disappear.” (Proverbs 22:10 NLT)

Dissonance is defined as an inharmonious sound. In music, it is the result of a combination of tones that results in a state of unrest. We can also experience dissonance when there is discord between different aspects of our life. For example, there are certain core principles that I live by. Whenever I am pressured to change my behavior and conform to the expectations of others, I feel a sense of incongruity.

Refusal to deal with short-term conflicts can lead to long-term dissonance. It is disheartening to be around those who belittle you, complain about your loved ones, and constantly express their disappointment in your life choices. When we avoid the discomfort of confronting daily discord, we end up in a persistent state of disharmony.

In order to have harmony, we must be willing to eliminate dissonance. Staying true to yourself and standing firm on your principles will require some conflict in the short run. However, these battles need to be fought, and boundaries have to be defended in order to  maintain peace in our lives.

Lord, please help us to stand up against those who cause strife and contention.