Stirring the Pot

“As for a person who stirs up division, after warning him once and then twice, have nothing more to do with him.” (Titus 3:10 ESV)

Some people are peacemakers, some are advocates, and others just like to stir the pot. Peacemakers try to resolve tension at any cost. Advocates feel the need to defend themselves and anyone else whom they deem oppressed. Pot-stirrers just like drama. They think that a certain amount of histrionics keeps things interesting. When these three get together, it’s just a matter of time before chaos erupts. The agitator will say something disparaging, the advocate will get defensive, and the peacemaker will try to pacify everyone to no avail.

"A humble man can do great things with an uncommon perfection, because he is no longer concerned about incidentals like his own interests and his own reputation, and therefore he no longer needs to waste his efforts in defending them." (Thomas Merton)

Humility helps us realize that we are no more important than the next person; our opinions have no more validity than that of any other person. What others think of us has very little significance. This frees us from being defensive or condescending. Wisdom allows us to recognize that we cannot neutralize every conflict or bring contentment to others. It also helps us understand that drama and divisiveness are harmful. Thus, humility and wisdom lead to acceptance.

“Perfect humility implies perfect confidence in the power of God before Whom no other power has any meaning and for Whom there is no such thing as an obstacle. Humility is the surest sign of strength." (No Man Is an Island, Thomas Merton)

Confidence in the power of God frees us from all forms of pride. It allows us to let go of our desire for control, because we realize our powerlessness. God is the only One who can make things right. Humility and trust become our source of strength.

Yahweh, may we be confident in Your power.