“Be gracious in your speech. The goal is to bring out the best in others in a conversation, not put them down, not cut them out.” (Colossians 4:6 MSG)
How can we bring out the best in others?
Listen--Tune in to what is said and left unsaid. Observe their body language and facial expressions. Recognize their uniqueness. Pay attention.
Value--Consider what they have to say. Give them time and space to express themselves. Do not be dismissive. Affirm and accept their innate worth.
Encourage--Point out what is good. Find the spark within; add kindling and oxygen until it is a steady flame. Inspire and empower others until they can see their own strengths.
Give--Be available and open. Do not seek to profit from others; instead, strive to build up others for their own benefit. Focus on what you can give, not what you can get.
Be gracious--Remain approachable and honest. Treat yourself and others honorably. Speak truthfully and clearly.
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