“Fix your thoughts on what is true and good and right. Think about things that are pure and lovely, and dwell on the fine, good things in others.” (Philippians 4:8 TLB)
The Department of Homeland Security uses the slogan ‘If you see something, say something’ to encourage people to report possible terrorist activities to authorities. Unfortunately, what is considered suspicious can be subjective. We tend to notice irregularities in people who are different while ignoring subversive behavior in those who look like us. Although this slogan is problematic, I have found it useful for a completely unintended purpose.
Here is my modified version: If you see something good, say something.
Most of us are reluctant to call out goodness, especially in strangers. It makes us feel subordinate. Our worth is not diminished by recognizing the wonderful qualities in another. When you see someone behaving nobly, affirm it. When you notice something admirable, acknowledge it. But be sincere. Do not use flattery to curry favor. Instead, uplift virtue even in random strangers. Keep your eyes open for the opportunity to encourage others. It brings joy and empowers goodness.
“Acknowledging someone else’s light doesn’t put mine out. We burn brighter together.” (Bernice King)
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