“Some people make cutting remarks, but the words of the wise bring healing. Truthful words stand the test of time, but lies are soon exposed.” (Proverbs 12:18-19 NLT)
There is a big difference between someone who stabs you in the back, and someone who carefully cuts open a wound to remove an infection.
People sometimes use reckless, backbiting, piercing words. Their intention is to hurt, tear down, and shame others. The words are often deceitful and twisted for maximum manipulation. Their goal is to make themselves feel better at the expense of others.
On the other hand, there are also people who speak thoughtfully and honestly. Truth, though sometimes painful, can bring healing in the long term. However, not all surgeons put the needs of their patients ahead of their own ambitions. Some operate mainly for personal gain. This might still bring healing to the patient, but it does not come from a place of generosity. Although they may claim they are serving others, it is often self-serving. Do not conflate this kind of ‘giving’ with those who give with pure motives.
Distinguishing between those who heal and those who harm requires experience. Telling the difference between truth and deceit takes wisdom. Sifting through a person’s intentions and motivations calls for spiritual discernment.
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