Committed Relationships

‘Love others as well as you love yourself.’ (Mark 12:31 MSG)

A committed relationship implies dedication, sacrifice, honesty, trust, faithfulness, and love. A married couple pledges to be devoted to each other, to protect and care for each other, and to never give up.  Although the term is used mostly to delineate serious romantic relationships, commitment can extend to many other types of bonds as well. 

It is difficult to love others until you learn to love yourself. Thus, a committed relationship with yourself is essential. What does this look like? You pledge to show up, speak up, and care for your body, mind, and soul. You are honest about your needs and motives. You trust your instincts and defend against abuse. You dedicate time, energy, and other resources toward nurturing your growth. You do not neglect or give up on yourself. This is not a license to be self-indulgent or to pursue pleasure. In fact, it is the opposite. You do not spoil what you love; you develop it to its full potential. 

When you decide to be in a committed relationship with yourself, you acknowledge that you are worthy of love. When you consistently show up for yourself, it increases your self-credibility. You believe in yourself, respect yourself, and trust yourself. From this foundation, you are able to extend love, honor, and commitment to others.