Understanding
your opponent involves an impartial analysis of his skills and weaknesses.
Carefully study your opponent. An opponent doesn’t necessarily have to be your
enemy. It can be anyone you have dealings with, whether it’s a friend, a
client, a coworker, an employer, or a family member.
It is hard to be
impartial when you feel passionate about a situation. And, it’s difficult to
fight for something if you don’t believe passionately in it. Knowing your enemy
without being clouded by emotion is harder than it sounds at first.
Knowing
ourselves involves being conscious of the enemy within. Our weak areas have to
be shielded. Our skills have to be strengthened. Tests of stamina and endurance
may improve our confidence. However, good judgment, self-control, and mental
discipline are the keys to fighting our inner battles.
“Can you imagine
what I would do if I could do all I can?” (Sun Tzu)
Awareness allows
us to leap up to a higher plane. It’s the difference between being a foot
soldier and a warrior on a horse. A warrior on a horse can see much farther,
and this perspective gives him an advantage. Conscious awareness of ourselves
and others allows us to move past mere good intentions to winning these
battles.
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