“Don’t let anyone belittle you...” (1 Timothy 4:12 VOICE)
Negging is a form of emotional manipulation whereby a person deliberately belittles another person in order to establish dominance. It is a mind game that can seem innocuous and funny, but it is dishonoring. The people who use this technique frequently try to pass it off as teasing or constructive criticism. In certain relationships, lack of respect is so prevalent that both parties are desensitized to its effects.
Do not belittle others. It shows that you are dishonorable. Relationships based on put-downs breed power struggles--resulting in passive-aggressive interactions. It demeans everyone involved.
Do not let anyone belittle you. Recognize it for what it is--an intentional attempt to undermine your confidence. You cannot control what others say to you or about you. But you may be able to avoid people who are emotionally manipulative. At the very least, do not accept their condescension as truth. Do not allow another’s indignity to strip you of your dignity.
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