“For we are each responsible for our own conduct.” (Galatians 6:5 NLT)
When a business venture is owned by a group of investors, everyone feels a sense of ownership. If one of the partners makes a bad financial decision, it affects the rest of them, too. Thus, they are likely to make amends for the troubled partner’s mistakes.
Similarly, when we get overly involved in other people’s affairs, we can end up feeling responsible for their choices. Oftentimes our intentions are good; we want to help someone out who obviously needs some assistance. Before long, we notice that they are digging themselves into a hole, and we are merely handing them a bigger shovel. At this time, if we notice either guilt or resentment creeping in, it’s a sign that we have moved from ‘helping’ to taking partial ownership of their issues.
When a loved one is in trouble, it is difficult not to get involved. Their conduct affects your peace; thus, you may get entangled in their issues. However, if you are continually rescuing them from the consequences of their choices, well into their forties, it’s not helpful. This is not to say that we should ignore those in need; just refrain from taking responsibility for their decisions.
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